Walking
with a person you ever don’t know and establishing a conversion
with this person is quit funny and interesting and also its make you
brave too but sometimes it can be accidental, so if want to talk with
a stranger then be careful about any accident but you can continue
talk with a stranger for leaving your fear and making yourself brave.
So follow this below steps to talk with a stranger.
1.
Practice until you become familiar with it. Practice
makes a man perfect and do more practice until you become a perfect
one. First time talking with strangers is quit difficult but if you
practice then one time you will be a boss on conversation with
strangers. Set a goal for every week with how many strangers you will
establish conversation. My opinion is set two strangers for each week
but if you face quit difficult then set one stranger for each week.
2.
Go to social events. Don’t go social events with your
friends. Make yourself along in social events. As a result you will
be a stranger and hidden person in any social events. First few
minutes you don’t need to talk with any one and later you can talk with
other strangers. You can attend fairs, book fairs, music concerts,
different outdoor festival, museum exhibition or any kinds of social
events.
3.
Get help of friends. If you are facing difficult to talk to a
stranger then you can get help of your friends. You can practice with
your friends and don’t let your friends carry entire conversation.
As a result you friends will understand how much you are interest
about talking with strangers.
4.
Don’t think so much. If you see someone unknown and you want to
talk with this stranger then don’t think so much if you think much
then you will become nervous. So don’t think much and start talking
with this stranger slowly.
5.
Boost your confidence. When you see an attractive man or woman
and then if you want to talk with this stranger then just boost your
confidence. May be it can be fake and you are too nervous but the
stranger don’t know about your nervousness. So just talk with this
stranger and stranger will understand what you want. But if you
practice more then onetime you don’t need to show your fake
confidence.
6.
Don’t let rejection ride on you. There are lots of people in
the world who don’t want to talk with strangers but if get someone
from them then you have to face rejection so if you get rejection
then don’t take it personally. Remember this failing will make you
more strong.
7.
Try to be friendly. When you start a conversation then try
to be friendly with this stranger if you nervously look your phone or
see other side then it will make bad impression to this strangers.
Just eye contact with this stranger and when stranger will look at
you then just smile. Feel stranger comfort to talk with you. If you
can feel comfort a stranger then you will be able to talk with this
stranger for more time.
8.
Nonverbal communication. Before you start talking with a
stranger if you nonverbally can communicate with a stranger instead
of direct talking then stranger will be ready before you start
talking. And you maybe able to make conversion for longtime.
Nonverbal communication can be like this just directly go to
strangers from far away and this walking time is much important to
stranger for being ready.
9.
Start with little interaction. If you want to start big conversation
with stranger then start with little. You can ask for favor instead
of asking whats your life goals. You can ask a stranger about time or
path. Be sure when you are asking time then your wristwatch or mobile
with silent mood is in pocket.
10.
Introduce yourself. Introducing is another forcefully start
conversation. If you say your name to a stranger then stranger
forcefully ask to give stranger’s name. If stranger say stranger’s
name then you can slowly start talking for big conversation. But if
stranger ignore your introduction then either stranger is in very bad
temper or stranger is very uncivil.
11.
Don’t ask yes or no question answer. If you ask a
question which answer is possible to give by yes or no then may be
conversation is going to end so fast. So ask a question which answer
can’t be given by yes or no. Example: I saw you here lots of time,
what brings you coming back.
12.
Ask stranger to understand something. If you know about
something or some place then forget it and ask about that something
to a stranger as a result the stranger will talk with you which means
new conversation is started. Example: If you see a paper on stranger
hand then you can ask stranger could you kindly say me about this
news, I jest read headline but could not read details. This time
stranger will feel so good and will start telling you about this matter
like a teacher which also means new conversation is started.
13.
Disagree with a matter. If you are in group where is started a
conversation. If you disagree about a matter against a stranger then
new debate will be started and both will be able to show their
intelligence and you will get new long term conversation but if you
see another one come into debate then finish debate immediately,
other side don’t forget to laugh and show other one that you are
enjoying and not upset at all.
14.
Choose fun able debate not serious. If you choose debate
for religion or politics then it’s going to bad situation so never
choose religion or politics topic which can hurt someone. You can
choose debate for movie, sports, music, foods, books or etc which
debating will be always fun.
15.
Let debate go for long time. If your started debate topic
is going so long then let it’s go. Stranger maybe want to say about
something which you don’t know so if you don’t know then say
stranger to explain it and enjoy stranger speech.
17.
Make short conversation where you are for few minutes. If you are
in shopping mall and a stranger is in line behind you then make short
conversation. You can ask stranger which is best then stranger will
give you answer but you have short time so finish conversation
quickly. This short interaction conversation can happen any where
even at elevator.
18.
Do fun when you are for long interaction. If you are in book
store, coffee shop or any other place where you can build long
interaction then do fun and impress stranger by your quality which
will help you to get long term friends.
19.
Know someone you are romantically interested. If you think
you like a stranger then immediately talk with this stranger. You can
share your personal information and also can ask personal question to
this stranger, like do you like kids or etc.
20.
Be professional. When you are at office then you can get
interaction with a stranger and this time show stranger that you are
confident and capable to do a work but if you feel greedy to talk
with this stranger then fake it until you slowly establish a good
conversation.
21.Little
conversation with interviewer. If you are in interview then make
little conversation with interviewer before or after interview and
impresses interviewer as a result interviewer will want you as a
colleague. You can share an information about yourself by which
interviewer fully will be impressed to you like I come here by leaving
my song class so that I really want this job.
This
above all are the steps to talk with a stranger so follow and
make every stranger as your good friend.
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