How to talk with a stranger

Walking with a person you ever don’t know and establishing a conversion with this person is quit funny and interesting and also its make you brave too but sometimes it can be accidental, so if want to talk with a stranger then be careful about any accident but you can continue talk with a stranger for leaving your fear and making yourself brave. So follow this below steps to talk with a stranger.  

1. Practice until you become familiar with it. Practice makes a man perfect and do more practice until you become a perfect one. First time talking with strangers is quit difficult but if you practice then one time you will be a boss on conversation with strangers. Set a goal for every week with how many strangers you will establish conversation. My opinion is set two strangers for each week but if you face quit difficult then set one stranger for each week.

2. Go to social events. Don’t go social events with your friends. Make yourself along in social events. As a result you will be a stranger and hidden person in any social events. First few minutes you don’t need to talk with any one and later you can talk with other strangers. You can attend fairs, book fairs, music concerts, different outdoor festival, museum exhibition or any kinds of social events.

3. Get help of friends. If you are facing difficult to talk to a stranger then you can get help of your friends. You can practice with your friends and don’t let your friends carry entire conversation. As a result you friends will understand how much you are interest about talking with strangers.

4. Don’t think so much. If you see someone unknown and you want to talk with this stranger then don’t think so much if you think much then you will become nervous. So don’t think much and start talking with this stranger slowly.

5. Boost your confidence. When you see an attractive man or woman and then if you want to talk with this stranger then just boost your confidence. May be it can be fake and you are too nervous but the stranger don’t know about your nervousness. So just talk with this stranger and stranger will understand what you want. But if you practice more then onetime you don’t need to show your fake confidence.

6. Don’t let rejection ride on you. There are lots of people in the world who don’t want to talk with strangers but if get someone from them then you have to face rejection so if you get rejection then don’t take it personally. Remember this failing will make you more strong.

7. Try to be friendly. When you start a conversation then try to be friendly with this stranger if you nervously look your phone or see other side then it will make bad impression to this strangers. Just eye contact with this stranger and when stranger will look at you then just smile. Feel stranger comfort to talk with you. If you can feel comfort a stranger then you will be able to talk with this stranger for more time.

8. Nonverbal communication. Before you start talking with a stranger if you nonverbally can communicate with a stranger instead of direct talking then stranger will be ready before you start talking. And you maybe able to make conversion for longtime. Nonverbal communication can be like this just directly go to strangers from far away and this walking time is much important to stranger for being ready.

9. Start with little interaction. If you want to start big conversation with stranger then start with little. You can ask for favor instead of asking whats your life goals. You can ask a stranger about time or path. Be sure when you are asking time then your wristwatch or mobile with silent mood is in pocket.

10. Introduce yourself. Introducing is another forcefully start conversation. If you say your name to a stranger then stranger forcefully ask to give stranger’s name. If stranger say stranger’s name then you can slowly start talking for big conversation. But if stranger ignore your introduction then either stranger is in very bad temper or stranger is very uncivil.

11. Don’t ask yes or no question answer. If you ask a question which answer is possible to give by yes or no then may be conversation is going to end so fast. So ask a question which answer can’t be given by yes or no. Example: I saw you here lots of time, what brings you coming back.

12. Ask stranger to understand something. If you know about something or some place then forget it and ask about that something to a stranger as a result the stranger will talk with you which means new conversation is started. Example: If you see a paper on stranger hand then you can ask stranger could you kindly say me about this news, I jest read headline but could not read details. This time stranger will feel so good and will start telling you about this matter like a teacher which also means new conversation is started.

13. Disagree with a matter. If you are in group where is started a conversation. If you disagree about a matter against a stranger then new debate will be started and both will be able to show their intelligence and you will get new long term conversation but if you see another one come into debate then finish debate immediately, other side don’t forget to laugh and show other one that you are enjoying and not upset at all.

14. Choose fun able debate not serious. If you choose debate for religion or politics then it’s going to bad situation so never choose religion or politics topic which can hurt someone. You can choose debate for movie, sports, music, foods, books or etc which debating will be always fun.

15. Let debate go for long time. If your started debate topic is going so long then let it’s go. Stranger maybe want to say about something which you don’t know so if you don’t know then say stranger to explain it and enjoy stranger speech.

17. Make short conversation where you are for few minutes. If you are in shopping mall and a stranger is in line behind you then make short conversation. You can ask stranger which is best then stranger will give you answer but you have short time so finish conversation quickly. This short interaction conversation can happen any where even at elevator.

18. Do fun when you are for long interaction. If you are in book store, coffee shop or any other place where you can build long interaction then do fun and impress stranger by your quality which will help you to get long term friends.

19. Know someone you are romantically interested. If you think you like a stranger then immediately talk with this stranger. You can share your personal information and also can ask personal question to this stranger, like do you like kids or etc.

20. Be professional. When you are at office then you can get interaction with a stranger and this time show stranger that you are confident and capable to do a work but if you feel greedy to talk with this stranger then fake it until you slowly establish a good conversation.

21.Little conversation with interviewer. If you are in interview then make little conversation with interviewer before or after interview and impresses interviewer as a result interviewer will want you as a colleague. You can share an information about yourself by which interviewer fully will be impressed to you like I come here by leaving my song class so that I really want this job.

This above all are the steps to talk with a stranger so follow and make every stranger as your good friend.